While some events may be truly formal-white tie, black tie, long gown-most will require the more versatile cocktail dress. Shorter (upwards from tea length) and usually made ofsilk and silk, or chiffon, though the fashion police won't arrest you if you're wearing somethingflirty and perfect, and fun.
Flattering is the key word. You need to know that you look good. You need to feel that you look good. Otherwise, you'll be pulling at your hair, dabbing at your nose, and hiding out in the loo most of the night. And what's the point in that? You're out to have a good time.
Looking for the right dress should be fun, too. Your favorite magazines are a good place to start. Get a sense of what's out there this year and pick out some styles that you not only like but that you know you'll look good in. designs, shooters and Recall are going for the unusual circumstance. Something truly eye-catching.
But you live and party in the real world, not caught in one-split second of unique film perfection. Think about it. Will your friends admire your selection or see it as too much? Will you be comfortable in something outré for the duration of the party?
The same rule of thumb goes for television programs and motion picture styles. What you see on the screen may plunge more deeply or rise higher than is acceptable for a social gathering. And screen designs and personalities for the most part adjust their body size to the camera's eye, which adds at least ten virtual pounds. You don't have to starve yourself for a dress.
Reality Check
Find out what your friends plan to wear before you buy. Let their consensus-and your budget-guide you. Don't put yourself in debt for the sake of a party. You will have other attire and situations, therefore you're store shopping over a shoestring, look to consignment and thrift suppliers, which often have one-of-a-gentle, beautiful cocktail and event dresses.
